“I wish you sufficient !”

A father and his daughter hugged each other intimately and warmly at the airport.
Both did not know if they would ever meet again.
The father was very old and a serious illness plagued him.
The daughter had left home with her husband many years ago, and they lived far, far away and could not come very often to visit.

Finally it was time for the daughter to get onto the plane.

“I love you, I wish you sufficient!”, said the father to his daughter.
“I love you too, Dad. I wish you also sufficient!”, she replied.

A passenger observed the scene could not hold back to ask the father after the farewell: “What does that mean, when you wished another “sufficient”.

“That’s a wish that has been passed down in our family from generation to generation,” the man replied.

“It means:
I wish you sufficient sun,
so your life may be bright.

I wish you sufficient rain,
so you can appreciate the sun.

I wish you sufficient luck,
so you can preserve your love.

I wish you sufficient sorrows,
so your smallest pleasures appear big.

I wish you sufficient profit,
so you get everything you need.

I wish you sufficient loss,
so you can appreciate everything you have.

I wish you are welcomed sufficiently often,
so you feel safe and loved when finally saying good-bye.”

(unknown)

TED – Barry Schwartz on practical wisdom

Updated on Sep 21, 2011.

Original title: “Barry Schwartz on our loss of wisdom” – Video on TED.com.

Barry Schwartz makes a passionate call for “practical wisdom” as an antidote to a society gone mad with bureaucracy. He argues powerfully that rules often fail us, incentives often backfire, and practical, everyday wisdom will help rebuild our world.

The one thing that I like the most about Barry’s message is that he simply calls each individual to self-responsibility. This call needs to be heard by our leaders – to spread the word and attitude about the political, economic or social responsibility we all have to live, and we are all expected to take it and stand up for… – and this call needs to be heard by ourselves: with too many guidelines, rules, processes in our organisations are incapacitating us as individuals, we collectively sit back and point at each other to take initiative, instead of using our own ‘practical wisdom’ and make a change!

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About Barry Schwartz

Barry Schwartz studies the link between economics and psychology, offering startling insights into modern life. Lately, working with Ken Sharpe, he’s studying wisdom. Full bio and more links